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“He is a wise man who does not grieve for the things which he has not, but rejoices for those which he has.”
Epictetus · Discourses
Quote record
Author
Epictetus
Source
Discourses
Chapter / location
Book 4, Chapter 4, c. 108 CE
Tradition
epictetus · happiness · stoicism · contentment · desire · wisdom
Source information
From Discourses, Book 4, Chapter 4, c. 108 CE.
Original language: Greek
Translation
Translated from Greek into English using a named scholarly edition.
Context
Read the contextual commentary in this archive entry.
Interpretation
Epictetus on happiness and wisdom: the wise man does not grieve for what he lacks but rejoices in what he has — the Stoic art of well-ordered desire.
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Context
Epictetus taught in Rome and later in Nicopolis, and his school was known for its insistence that philosophy is a practice rather than a doctrine. The passage comes from a chapter on freedom from perturbation, where Epictetus argues that the emotions which disturb people are under their control in a way that events are not.
His point is practical: if rejoicing is a matter of attention and judgment, then the capacity for happiness is available to anyone who learns to direct attention correctly. The wise man's joy is not dependent on his circumstances, because he has stopped measuring his life by what fortune has withheld.
Significance
The sentence is a complete method in miniature. It names the two failures that produce misery — grieving for the absent and failing to notice the present — and prescribes their cure: redirect attention to what one has, and let the value of the present register. This is the Stoic version of the practice modern psychology calls gratitude.
Its deeper claim is that happiness is a skill of attention rather than an outcome of acquisition. If that is right, then well-being is far more available than consumer culture assumes. Explore the theme in how to cultivate contentment, what is the happiness set point, and Epictetus on the dichotomy.
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- Explore the practice in how to cultivate contentment and happiness vs satisfaction.
- Read the companion insight in Epictetus on expectations and Marcus Aurelius on happiness.
- Continue with contentment, happiness, and the Stoic Wisdom learning path.
Sources
- Epictetus, Discourses, Book 4, Chapter 4, trans. Thomas Wentworth Higginson.
- "Stoicism." Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy. https://plato.stanford.edu/entries/stoicism/
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- 01DiscoursesBy EpictetusEpictetus, Discourses, Book 4, Chapter 4, trans. Thomas Wentworth Higginson (Boston: Little, Brown, 1865).
- 02StoicismBy Stanford Encyclopedia of PhilosophyConsult source
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